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HOURGLASS - Memoir on the Fly's avatar

Very timely and helpful for me, Ladane. A good example of what you're suggesting is what I am learning from talking with my extremely frail older half-sister. She was 16 when I was born and was "lucky" enough (ha) to have to take care of me when I was a baby. I don't remember that, of course, but she does. I am learning so much that I never knew, both about her and our family situation. Thank you so much.

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Miguel A Castillo Jr.'s avatar

Thank you

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Melanie Ess's avatar

Unless your family is abusive

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Brendan Spiegel's avatar

Yes, absolutely, that's an important point. I think that's likely one of the reasons Ladane mentioned that this is something she often (but not always) recommends writers do.

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